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  Consistently act

We can decide over our own lives - or be a puppet

An old proverb says: "Everyone has his own fortune," it also means that each one is responsible of his own misfortune. In other words the own actions are self-determined and action is the key to everything in yourself and your life.

However, in life influences and manipulations are trying to determine the action from outside in their favor, such as parents, partners, friends, school, peers, society, and many more.

They can exercise power over us, and we can be their puppet. Or we form our lives according to our own ideas and wishes. However, some of these outside influences are deeply embedded in our subconscious, or seem to have a strong power over us and block us at times we want to do something.

It is important to know that we can free ourselves of it and we can steer ourself, it is in our own hands to do this or that or not. Thus, there is no fate or an otherwise predetermined course of life. We are free to make our own lives - by our own desires.

To change something, or to bring forward you have to act

The greatest ideals, ideas and thoughts are useless if they can not be implemented.

Here is to overcome the "inner bitch" too. For this to happen, there are some well-known phrases, "Just do it" or make it. Get it done. If you have been overcome once and the task just completed, and runs through, you feel liberated and relieved afterward. Only then you will succeed in achieving the set goals.

Ways arise from the fact that they are gone. Doubt and hesitation will cost you the most time and will/power.
You have the power to form and arrange your life as you want it.
What can you lose nothing. (remember)
You can usually win a lot more!

Every day do something that costs overcoming.

Make your dreams come true.

Here is a summary of thoughts from the book "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill

  • Thoughts are deeds
  • Don't get thrown back by any power of the world from your goal!
  • Have a clear aim and unswerving determination
  • Dreams come true when our desire is excreted in action

In 6 steps to success - from desire to achievement

  1. define precisely financial goal
  2. which will I provide in return for it
  3. plan time to achieve the set aims
  4. make a detailed plan for realizing and immediately go to work (make into action), regardless of whether one feels ready or not
  5. write everything down to the last detail (1-4)
  6. Read these notes after rising and before going to bed. - Feel, see and believe while reading this that your dreams came thrue.

Fueled by desire, imbued with conviction. Achievement of the objectives does not require more strength and endurance than for mediocre life, strength and endurance are crucial in the service of desire.

Any disadvantage can be transformed into an at least equal advantage. There is nothing with unshakable self-confidence and unbridled desire that could not be realized.

Targeted faith gives any thought resounding force. The irresistible force of self-confidence - belief in yourself - will drive you further.

What you think and believe is right in your hand.

It is as boost essential to strengthen all the positive emotions - in a positive mental attitude, and switch off all the other negative emotions and thoughts.

How is an idea / plan / target planted? Through conscious frequent repetition of that idea.

Objective - way to hold - plan in writing, memorize, repeat daily.

Get rid of any negative outside influence and shape your life according to own wishes and ideas.

5 Steps to self-confidence

  1. I am able to reach my life-targets - indefatigable perseverance, I call from me till my plans are done.
  2. My thoughts can be transformed into visible and touchable reality. = Therefore make image of the desired personality and sought external circumstances
  3. Thanks to autosuggestion every wish put into the subconscious will be fulfilled. Daily strengthen your self-confidence for 10 minutes.
  4. The main objective of my life, I have outlined in writing and I will develop the confidence needed with help of auto-suggestion.
  5. Honesty and sense of justice are the only reliable basis of wealth and prestige. Enter into no agreements that could be detrimental to a party. Success through strength and support of my fellow human beings. I will bring the others to stand up for my purposes, as I myself will always be a supporter of theirs. I will banish hate, envy, jealousy, selfishness and cynicism in my heart and will do my best to give instead love for all people, because I know that every negative emotion or mood will hurt myself the most. I will bring others to believe in myself, though I believe in them and in myself. This may gradually influence my thoughts and actions and make me a confident and successful person (from memory + 1 x daily repeat aloud).
  • You are also responsible for your misfortune. If consciousness is filled with fears, doubts, self-critical thought, the subconscious will internalize this "mental garbage" and translate into reality.
  • You have to give - before you take!
  • Poverty and wealth are both creations of mind.


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